Doubt or no doubt..

As I was reading Princess Amidala blog.. she sprung out something interesting about making a reconciliation in separated love relationship.

Well, I was trying to re jog my old memories and how a comeback in love couple relationship likes..

Its sometime a no easy tasks when one love the other person and the other person is insensitive to the wants and needs of the others. Somehow being independent in loving relationship does reflect maturity. .Yet, its a two communications stuff and the word relationship actual if you break it down is RELATE... RELATION... SHIP..

So obviously RELATE has got a lot to do with communication.. and RELATIONS goes further into certain extend of tie and understanding in this communication.. SHIP is something going on board and committed to it.. like friendSHIP.. your level of on board the deck with friend does has it value between both of you..

yet.. love couple relationship goes further and to certain degree of intimacy. Well, I take into account that this love relationship is 1 to 1 rules.. else read no more if your disagree with my thought.. ahaha..

Being in a relationship sometime does take hardwork and understanding. If you are with someone with likemindedness and have so much common and interests and goals ..then it will be much easy. .but some ppl label it as boring .. :p..

Anyway, its not everyone that will surely ended up with someone that has such common ground all the time.. I think sometime we could love someone of the opposite side.. both side need to work towards certain understanding and the level of sacrifices that is willing from both party.

There are of course no guarantee happily ever after especially in these day society which we shoulder upon ourselves with hope and dreams so much that we are willing for forgo sometime that ultimate values in having a loving and true relationships.

I took a long time to understand too. I don't really have a role models in front of my eyes. I only see my parents growing in love and care until I am age 8 years old.. after that all hell broke lose..

It was a stony ride for me and I do learn in the process anyway. Still learning though. I hope to improve much better.

I think when you are in love with someone. You gotta take time to care and love for that person. I think it is also a daily affair no matter how busy we are at time. You need to share and grow and sometime self-checking as well.. have we take thing for granted.. I think it does take some interesting works.. but the process is so much interesting and fun if both party could work it out lah...

Amanda, pertaining to the question you ask ... I do ask myself long time ago. I think there is no such definite answer.. Now the choice is whether you want to dive into that reservoir again or not.. time will tell... and from my experience ...after sometime of being together again.. you will know it... I think from my experience to best describe a comeback in a love relationship is as the quote below ( my 2 cents tot ) :-

You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with.

~Wayne W. Dyer